My first response to Jake's Customer Interaction Manifesto got me thinking about how social marketing is like a party. But you can only be successful if you know what kind of party you're attending. Organizations tend to view community interaction in one of two ways: as a kids' birthday party, or as a dinner party.
Social Marketing as Kids' Party
Here's how the typical birthday party goes. First the kids play pin-the-tail-on-the-donkey. Then they open presents. Then they eat cake. Then they whack the pinata. Then they gather up their party favors and go home. Under no circumstances are the kids allowed to play with the presents before the cake is eaten! Jimmy's new toys will be smeared with sticky ice cream if the presents are opened too soon. Everything is perfectly ordered, and done for a reason. Nothing's left to chance, because kids never, ever have a good time without a little adult organization to guide them.
This is how organizations typically want to enter the community marketing space. They organize every last detail up-front. Set up the website. Create a MySpace page. Start blogging -- comments off. Get approval for all new posts. Post a video to YouTube. Wait for traffic to roll in.
The trouble with all this, of course, is that it fails to recognize that people are social. They don't need your blog or your MySpace page or your "viral" video to have a good time. What they really need is other people. Your job, as a community marketer, is to create a place around which a community will gather -- not to lay out a regimented agenda for people to follow.
Social Marketing as Dinner Party
A dinner party is much less regimented than a kids' birthday party. We instincitively trust that adults, when gathered together, will entertain themselves. The dinner provides the occasion around which people will gather. After that, we let people mingle, and talk, and interact. We introduce people to each other, serve them drinks and food, and leave them alone.
If you're serious about community marketing, this is the model to follow. It's scary (What if those 3 people over in the corner are complaining about my dry chicken?!). But it will ultimately engage people by giving them the opportunity to join the community at their own pace. It will establish you as a valuable member of the community -- as someone who cares about others, and shows that care by being a good host.
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